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    Where did the weekend go?

    Photos by Ale Veyna

    Outfit Details:
    Free People Scarf (Similar here, here and here)
    Old Navy Chambray Shirt (Similar)
    H&M Chunky Cardigan (Similar)
    H&M Trouser Shorts
    Black Tights
    Madewell Loafers (Similar here and here)
    I’ve you haven’t figured it out from the title of this post, lately I’ve been feeling like I don’t have enough time to do everything that I want to do and have this feeling of being burnt out that I just can’t shake off. I think part of it is that I’ve been trying to fit in all these things that I love into my schedule–such as running, reading, blogging, crafting, writing, meditation, etc.–but I haven’t given myself enough time to rest. I need to work on being okay with not achieving everything on my to do list, realizing that I can’t do everything at the same time, and giving myself a break every once in a while. Please excuse me if this sounds repetitive from previous posts, but this is something that I constantly need to remind myself to do, especially since I often find myself in a similar state of being.
    Something that really helped me somewhat shake off the feeling of being overwhelmed was getting out of the house most of the day Saturday. Doing that got me away from my laptop and gave me a break from working on this space; I also made an effort to not be glued to my phone while I was out and about. I really love social media and this blog, but sometimes I think focusing too much of my time on those things prevents me from living in the moment. Sometimes it’s nice to disconnect and not feel the pressure to find some special highlight to share with the world through Instagram or Facebook.
    Other than me struggling to find time to recharge, it was a very good weekend, even if it was too short. As I mentioned before, I was out of the house most of Saturday and spent some time in Downtown L.A., attended an event at my old workplace, and then ended the night by going out for beers and pizza with my sister Ale. It also cooled down and drizzled a bit over the weekend, and the weather made it easier for me to take things slow; I kind of hope the rain sticks around for a few more days so that I can get the hang of this new, much slower pace.
    xoxo,
    Helen
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    Outfit

    Monochromatic Mod

    Photos by Ale Veyna
    Outfit Details:
    Madewell Bag
    Old Navy Turtleneck
    H&M Mini Skirt (Similar)
    Forever 21 Over-the-knee Socks (Similar)
    Madewell Loafers (Similar steal and splurge)

    When I was in high school I was obsessed with everything about 60s Mod style, especially the bold prints and simple A-line silhouettes. I would try to dress in clothes similar to that style even though vintage and Mod-inspired pieces were hard to afford on my budget. I even remember having a folder on my desktop filled with pictures of Twiggy and other girls in 60s fashion.

    Although my current style is far from 60s Mod fashion, many times I do tend to gravitate towards pieces that are inspired by that era such as loafers, mini skirts and shift dresses. Putting together this outfit was so easy and fun because I had a clear vision of what I wanted to look like in my mind. I was even going to straighten my hair and and style it in a bouffant to complete the look, but opted not to since this was one of those rare days when my naturally wavy hair wasn’t being rebellious. I’m actually glad that I wore my hair like this, even though it takes away from the Mod vibe of this look, because it makes my outfit seem like something that I can wear every day instead of a costume. However, I’m not saying that I won’t go the extra mile next time I put together an outfit inspired another decade.

     

     

    Life has been very slow lately, and I kind of like it that way. I have always been a perfectionist and felt the need to have as many things as possible on my plate, but am working towards abandoning that habit. I realize that it’s not healthy to beat myself up for not doing enough–whatever that means–and I want to become better at living in the moment. I also realize that it is possible to be goal oriented without having to constantly worry about the future.

    In my effort to learn to be more present, I have committed to a daily meditation and prayer practice during the 40 days of Lent, which I was inspired to do by my friend Janista as well as a mindfulness training that I’m taking part in at work. I actually grew up with the tradition of Lent, but in the past I’ve participated by giving up things such as sweets or social media, none of which have helped me become a better person in any way. I’m hoping that setting time apart to reflect on my day will enable me to become more aware of my feelings, my surroundings and the people around me. I’ve only been meditating daily for about a week, but I’ve already noticed how much more calm and centered I feel because of it.

    xoxo
    Helen

     

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    Outfit

    Cleaning Up The Clutter

    Photos by Sarah Veyna
    Outfit Details:
    Forever 21 Round Sunglasses (Not Available Online)
    H&M Striped Tee (Old)
    Cropped Paper Bag Trousers (Old)
    Madewell Loafers (Similar)
    Madewell Leather Bag
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    I have to start off this post by saying that I desperately wanted to be at FYF this weekend, and I am kind of jealous of everybody else who got to go. How many times do you have the opportunity to see both Phoenix and The Strokes–two of my favorite bands–play on the same weekend?  I went last year and had a blast, but I didn’t have the money to buy tickets when they went on sale this year. I also couldn’t justify putting that purchase on my credit card because I’m trying to be a responsible adult (trying is the keyword in this sentence). But I can’t complain about missing out on a music festival when, this year, I’ve had the opportunity to travel to new cities to visit some of my most beloved friends. It is also easier to fight the urge to buy concert tickets with my concert buddies no longer around–you know who you are, and I miss you all!
    While I wasn’t at FYF this year, I managed to do some much-needed organizing. I spent most of Saturday cleaning out my closet and reorganizing my room.  The main reason that I wanted to organize my closet is because I keep trying to convince myself that I need new clothes, even though I have more than plenty of things to wear. Sometimes it seems much easier to go out and buy something new instead of taking the time to look through what you already have. But, in cleaning up the clutter in my closet, I’ve realized that I have a habit of doing that with many things in my life. I have a tendency to ignore matters that are pressing simply because I don’t want to deal with them, and take the easy way out by looking for a new and temporary solution. That is why I feel like I’m making progress when I actually make the effort to have some sort of structure in my workplace and in my home. Even if clutter manages to reappear a few weeks later, I at least have a moment where I feel like I somewhat have my life together.
    I didn’t spend all my weekend cleaning, though. Sunday was a great day because I went out for lunch with my Mom, my sister Sarah, and my brother David. After lunch, we spent some time walking around Old Pasadena and it was really fun. My Mom and I kept trying to take family photos, but Sarah and David just weren’t having it. I had to beg my brother until he finally agreed to take ONE picture with me. I guess the rest of the members of my family aren’t as obsessed with documenting every second of their life as I am. But, you have to have a way to remember all the good times you’ve spent together, right?
    As always, thank you so much for stopping by my blog and letting me get away with not talking about my outfit. I hope that you all have an amazing week!
    xoxo,
    Helen Grace
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