When I was in high school I was obsessed with everything about 60s Mod style, especially the bold prints and simple A-line silhouettes. I would try to dress in clothes similar to that style even though vintage and Mod-inspired pieces were hard to afford on my budget. I even remember having a folder on my desktop filled with pictures of Twiggy and other girls in 60s fashion.
Although my current style is far from 60s Mod fashion, many times I do tend to gravitate towards pieces that are inspired by that era such as loafers, mini skirts and shift dresses. Putting together this outfit was so easy and fun because I had a clear vision of what I wanted to look like in my mind. I was even going to straighten my hair and and style it in a bouffant to complete the look, but opted not to since this was one of those rare days when my naturally wavy hair wasn’t being rebellious. I’m actually glad that I wore my hair like this, even though it takes away from the Mod vibe of this look, because it makes my outfit seem like something that I can wear every day instead of a costume. However, I’m not saying that I won’t go the extra mile next time I put together an outfit inspired another decade.
Life has been very slow lately, and I kind of like it that way. I have always been a perfectionist and felt the need to have as many things as possible on my plate, but am working towards abandoning that habit. I realize that it’s not healthy to beat myself up for not doing enough–whatever that means–and I want to become better at living in the moment. I also realize that it is possible to be goal oriented without having to constantly worry about the future.
In my effort to learn to be more present, I have committed to a daily meditation and prayer practice during the 40 days of Lent, which I was inspired to do by my friend Janista as well as a mindfulness training that I’m taking part in at work. I actually grew up with the tradition of Lent, but in the past I’ve participated by giving up things such as sweets or social media, none of which have helped me become a better person in any way. I’m hoping that setting time apart to reflect on my day will enable me to become more aware of my feelings, my surroundings and the people around me. I’ve only been meditating daily for about a week, but I’ve already noticed how much more calm and centered I feel because of it.
