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White Summer Dress//A Few Thoughts on Embracing Change

Laurelhurst Park_Portland_Belted Off the Shoulder White Dress_Clogs_Basket Bag

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White Off-the-Shoulder Dress (Similar styles down below)

Leather Belt (Old)

Lotta from Stockholm Clogs in Tan

Vintage Longaberger Basket Bag

We’ve been getting a bit of a heat wave here in Portland this past week, so it was finally time to break out this white off-the-shoulder dress. I know this is going to be one of my favorite pieces this summer for many reasons. I really love the off-the-shoulder style and bell sleeves, two of my favorite trends this season. The light fabric is also perfect for warm days when you want to look cute but keep cool at the same time. But, most of all, I love how easy it is to style this dress. All you need is a cute pair of shoes and bag to pair with it, and you’re good to go!

I have to admit, I wasn’t sure if I liked this white summer dress at first when my mom gifted it to me last summer. The dress has a loose silhouette, which I usually try to avoid because I don’t feel like it best accentuates my petite but curvy figure. Luckily, if you’re on the same boat as I am, all it takes is a belt to cinch the waist and give this dress more shape. I also think it would work well with a cute white sash, don’t you agree?

Off-the-shoulder dress

white summer dress

Longaberger Basket Bag_Lotta from Stockholm Peeptoe Clogs_White Summer Dress

A Few Thoughts on Embracing Change

Now that we’ve talked about the shift in the weather, let’s talk about the upcoming changes in my life. As I’ve mentioned before, I’m graduating from school and trying to figure out what’s next for me. Overall, I’ve been managing my stress and anxiety very well. I’ve been putting skills I’ve learned into practice like being mindful and getting in self-care when needed.

However, I’ve noticed that I often tend to fixate on my appearance instead of dealing with my emotions. Getting a haircut or updating my style, are all things I do to ease my anxiety. After all, even if the world around me is falling apart, these are things I can control. However, that’s not always necessarily true.

For example, this past week I got it in my head that I needed a new hair color to correlate with this new phase in my life. I had a specific hair color picked out, similar to what I had a few years back. When I discussed it with my stylist, she said it would probably take a few sessions to lighten it that much because my hair was so dark. But, she stressed that it was important not to hurry and just sit back and enjoy the different phases as we worked towards my goal.

Regardless, I still had the hope that we would get to the shade I originally wanted somehow. Of course that didn’t happened, which then led to a wave of emotions. I went from liking the color I left the salon with, to feeling like I had failed at reaching a goal. All these feelings were because of something so stupid like hair. But really, they weren’t. I was just projecting my stress and channelling all of my energy towards this one thing.

 It’s been a few days, and I’m happy to report that I’m totally in love with my new hair color (which you can better appreciate here); my stylist really did do an amazing job! But going through those emotions has made me realize that I need to be patient. I need to embrace change one step at a time. It’s okay to have an end goal in my career or when it comes to my style, but I can’t expect to immediately reach the finish line. Everything takes hard work and patience, as frustrating as that may be at times. Moreover, it’s those unexpected surprises and challenges along the way that make life exciting.

Who knew that changing my hair color could lead to so many insights? What are some of your tips for embracing change?


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14 Comments

  • Reply Katrin

    I love this cute dress! IDK I just go with the change!

    May 29, 2017 at 12:43 pm
    • Reply helenveyna@gmail.com

      Thank you! And I keep trying to do that, but it’s so hard. haha!

      May 29, 2017 at 5:30 pm
  • Reply Laura Mitbrodt

    Your dress is so pretty, I love it with the belt
    xo
    http://www.laurajaneatelier.com

    May 29, 2017 at 11:19 pm
    • Reply helenveyna@gmail.com

      Thank you so much, Laura!

      May 29, 2017 at 11:19 pm
  • Reply Jody-Ann

    As terrifying as it is, you’ve gotta embrace it Love. You’re destined for greatness no matter how it unfolds and you look fabulously stylish all the same:)
    Best of luck xo.

    http://mojitosandmanolos.blogspot.ca/

    May 30, 2017 at 4:40 am
    • Reply helenveyna@gmail.com

      Thanks for such sweet words, Jody-Ann! I’m going to choose to believe you and just try to embrace all this change. I hope you’re having a wonderful week!

      May 31, 2017 at 9:00 pm
  • Reply Stella Asteria

    Such a great look and dress Helen! I agree with you, adding a belt on a similar dress I have, works like a charm 🙂 I love little white dresses like this for spring/summer <3 Thanks for sharing and have a great week!
    xo
    Stella
    http://www.stellaasteria.com

    May 30, 2017 at 8:13 am
    • Reply helenveyna@gmail.com

      Right, I feel like a cute belt is the perfect solution for so many wardrobe problems. I hope you have a great week too, Stella!

      May 31, 2017 at 9:01 pm
  • Reply Diane

    Really enjoyed reading your post! xx

    Diane
    http://petiteinparis.com/style-guide/5-style-bags

    May 31, 2017 at 3:49 am
    • Reply helenveyna@gmail.com

      Thanks so much, Diana! I’m glad! 😀

      May 31, 2017 at 9:01 pm
  • Reply Violette

    This white dress is so cute! Your hair color is perfect!

    http://violettedaily.com

    June 4, 2017 at 1:30 am
    • Reply helenveyna@gmail.com

      Thank you, Violette!

      June 4, 2017 at 1:53 pm
  • Reply Elegant Duchess

    Beautiful outfit, I really like the dress, very graceful. Thank you for sharing

    Pop by http://www.elegantduchess.com/

    June 16, 2017 at 1:17 am
    • Reply helenveyna@gmail.com

      Thank you!

      June 22, 2017 at 9:08 pm

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